Focusing

     Last year at this time I was in this period of waiting, I was in this period of quietness.  Many hours spent alone.    Lots of time to think.    Now life is speeding by and I am finding that I have less time to think.  I am still in a time of waiting.   I am still waiting on an answer.  I know that no matter what the out come is, I will be fine.   In fact I will be stronger...  Wiser.

I stay as focused on the positives as I can.   I love to look at the situations in my life and find the hand of God.  I love to see where he's been walking beside me and where's he been carrying me.  I can not even begin to put into words how much growth has happened this year.  In my heart, in my faith in my relationships.   Those moments where my heart is just breaking... I pull up those memories I have tucked away in my heart from this year.   The ones that are recorded in my joy journal.   I see the why and I say Thank You...   Thank You God for walking with me, carrying me when I can't and showing your love for me through the written words and the special people you've planted in my path..   

So yes, I am thankful for where I am at.  So very thankful for where I am at.  I know that my faith is growing so much... It's really amazing! 

Being thankful doesn't mean there isn't time of pain.  Time of questioning.    The thing I want most in life is to use my past and the things I've gone through to show God's glory.  I've gone through some very dark situations that were painful and scary.    I didn't go through those times alone.  I had God's hand in mine my entire life...   

If I can show the light of God through my life.. Through my story then that's what it's all about!  I myself have learned so many valuable life lessons... Lessons that helped me grow in my faith and in myself.    I pray that God uses me to touch the hearts of those around me.  That's what means the most to me in life.     

If I want to be used by God, I've got to let him more.  Sounds funny right?  Here I am saying he's walked with me my whole life and now I am saying I've got to let him in?    Yes he's walked with me.   However the world around me has gotten to me.  My own flesh insecurities have gotten to me.   The enemy has gotten to me.   I've found myself in rut where my thoughts have been focused on lies I've chosen to believe.   Lies that I am not good enough, I am not pretty enough.  I am not nice enough.  I am annoying.  I am broken.  I am not helpful.  No one actually likes me.  My emotions are too much for anyone to handle.   I am crazy.  I am mean.... The self destructive lies that have put up barrier between God and I.   With these lies I started to believe God was always angry with me.   I was always disappointing him.   I've failed him.   I've pushed him one to many times and he's going to leave me.     I am in the process of working through these lies.   Figuring out where they've come.  How am I letting them control me and how I can break free of them.    I know that through GOD all things are possible and believing in him and working with him.  I will break through these things, but I also know that it's not going to happen over night.  I have 28 years of thinking certain things to break free from and re train myself.

This is the current road I am on...  Learning new things, growing, waiting and keeping my FOCUS upward.  Remembering that no matter what, I am not alone and I am very loved by God....  It's all so confusing right now but it's worth working through..

Goodbye August!

        It's come and gone!  August 2012 is officially over! (PRAISE TO GOD)  For those who know me really well knew that I was dreading this month.   This month I had to face something that I just did not want to face.   So there fore it left a dark cloud hanging over my head.   I knew going into this month it was going to be challenging and I knew there would be days that I would be just a hot mess.  That was correct.  There were several days that were difficult and that I was just broken down.   I was never alone though.   I had constant love and support from those the closet to me.  Planted directly in my life by God.  He knew exactly who I needed this month..  Who would hold my hand when I was scared, who would crack jokes when I need a laugh.  Who wouldn't let me shut down on myself and everyone around me when that's all I wanted.  I was blessed in that way.

I have to say that August had it's hard moments like I knew it would, but August had it's wonderful, special rare moments!  I was so greatly blessed this month.   Provided for and taken care of.   So much joy was planted just for me this month.  I am blessed that through the last year I was taught to have an eye for joy.

My joys were amazing and filled so much love.  My heart is seriously full right now.  This month I had old friends come into town.  We went sailing and remembered good times.  It's been years since the gang was together..  Talk about wonderful old memories relived and new ones made.

There was also an epic Zip line adventure... Nothing like zipping through the trees.  (Though my favorite part was just the company... Love those strong faithful women.... Love...)

I also got a message when I was least expecting it that my BECKA was coming into town with her four wonderful girls.   She's played a major role in my life in the past several years.  Taught me a pretty important lesson in life and has loved me unconditionally.  Though our communication has always been through phone calls, mail, facebook, texts and email!   On one of the hardest days ever she was in town and she wanted to spend time with me!!  The much needed hug by a special friend... GIFT... Gift from God.. I don't believe in coincidences.  I know with all of my heart that God allowed her vacation time to be at the very same week I needed a little extra encouragement and joy....    (Hey Becka.... This is just for you...   I LOVE YOU!!  Thanks for that.)

Friends that became family reunited

So to sum it yes there was some hard moments, some very dark moments but the joy far out ways the hard.  This month is seriously going to live in my heart forever.   Pictures are great but the memories made will live on in my heart forever!

Adventures or coffee it's always a joy!

This little man always makes me laugh

Best Zip line crew ever! Love you all!

I got a little Hope!

A little Grace, Faith,Joy and Hope.. LOVE

My sweet Becka and Joy.  (You mean the world to me)

(Jenn, your friendship is seriously the biggest pop of joy all the time.   You never let me give up when I wanted.  You loved me through my hot mess moments.  Held my hand through the tears.  Laughed when I needed to laugh.  Zipped over trees with me and just listened.... Love you)

August

August is approaching and it's approaching fast!   My stomach is crazy right now!  I have never wanted a month to come and go so much. I just want it OVER!!!  This month is going to hold many new things.  Many challenging things.   I am going to just have Faith...  Having Faith isn't always easy.  In fact it's probably one of the toughest things to do is have Faith.   So I am examining my life closely right now.   God has brought me out of one of the scariest times in my life.  He's made me stronger and he answered my prayers in ways I never expected!   I spot him daily in my life.   My job which isn't exactly new anymore, is by far one of the biggest blessings God's given me.   Logos Bible Software is a dream job!   I am surrounded by the most amazing people.  I can't tell you how many of them encourage me daily!  It's just a fun place to work!  Not to mention I get to grow in my faith and I have this at my finger tips.  https://faithlife.com/fsb I have it on my iPad and iPhone it's so nice to have right there with me!   So I see this blessing... I live this blessing every single day.  

I also have the biggest support teams ever.  I have people in my life who love me.  They love me for me.  They take me just as I am, even if sometimes its over emotional, insecure, quiet, or crazy.  They are just there and I couldn't be more thankful!

I am really blessed!!  I know this!  I see this..  I believe this!   Though I am human and my heart hurts sometimes.   I get scared sometimes.   Right this very second I am terrified!  I have no control what happens this month.   I just have to pray that my future is in God's hands and he's going to be with me through each day.  Even when this month is over he's going to be with me.  If things don't turn out the way I want them to, God's undying love will still be mine.  I will still be blessed to be working for Logos Bible Software.  That it's self is an open door!  I will still have my friends and my family...  At this end of this month no matter what happens I will be a stronger person and my Faith will be intact.   That I know to be true!

Also at the end of this month I will have completed a life long dream.. I will have gone Ziplining with some of the coolest people I know.   

Yes, I am still nervous, I may be a hot mess this month but I know that I will make it through, and I won't be doing it alone!

Thanks to all my friends and family who are with me right now!  Love you all!

God's blessed me!

Faithlife

Last year at this time I was checking into Logos Bible Software.  I had known some people that had worked for this company and herd nothing but great things.   I remember thinking to myself.  How I would love to work there.   However I had a job.  I had a job I loved.  I was working at a Christian Daycare as a preschool teacher.   I was getting to share my love for the Lord with small children.  I thought I’d stay at this job forever.  I was not willing to venture out of my comfort zone.  God had bigger plans for me.   I know that he planted that seed in my heart about wanting to find out about Logos.   He was preparing my heart for the journey to come.

After a rough few months God held my hand and kept me strong as I learned to fully rely on him.  My world had crashed down around me and I was given two choices.   Stand with my eyes cast upon our heavenly Father or run away.  Run away from everyone and everything that mattered.  Fall into a deep dark depression that could have led to dark places.   I picked to keep my eyes on our father and rely on him.  It wasn’t easy.  There was a lot of pain and there were some dark moments.   However my faith grew.  I have never been so thankful for a hardship like I am for this.

God led me to Logos Bible Software!  He opened the door for me to work in another amazing Christian environment.  I get to be part of such an amazing company and I get to keep growing!

Which brings me to Faithlife Study Bible, It amazing!  I have always been one who struggles with reading my Bible.  If I don’t understand it I give up.   I know it’s wrong.   I am working on that.  However with the Faithlife Study Bible I can read my bible, and there are detailed notes right below that explains things.  That help me understand what I am reading.  Not to mention pictures and videos!  It’s amazing.   I can’t enough of it.  It is the coolest program I have used.  Not only can I use it on the computer but on my iPad too.  In church I can type the verse in that Pastor Phil has just said and see notes that go along with it.

I am also the kind of girl that might need a little bit of pushing.  Someone to help me stay accountable, Faithlife has a media side too.  So you can join groups.   So my amazing friend who I do a bible study with have our own little group.  Just the two of us.  We can write to each other what we’ve found.  Ask questions.  Leave notes.  Knowing it will all be safe.   I’ve also joined other groups that are public.  I am learning so much.   I seriously can’t get enough of the Faithlife Study Bible.  

 I never dreamed that when I had that first thought of liking Logos that my path would lead me to this great company.   Where I could work and grow.  Where I could watch the Faithlife Study Bible launch and learn to use it in my daily life!

I seriously recommend everyone to check out Faithlife Study Bible and everything else out Logos puts out.  Everything is fantastic!  I am just so amazed by everything!

God is pretty amazing! 

www.faithlife.com

 

http://faithlifewomen.com/  (Ladies this is just amazing!  A place just for us!!)

A Year?

I know for fact that my brain works on time.  I measure everything in time...  So I've been looking at my life like this....

In August of 2011... My life changed... DRASTICALLY!   So I set my eyes on to August of 2012... By August of 2012 everything has to get better.  A year makes a huge difference you know...

It's not August yet.  Though it's closer then we'd all like to think.  I can't believe it's June!! 

Taking a step back and removing my focus from August has given me a new look on life.  Yes I will most likely still measure things in time.  It's the way my brain functions.  However it's learning to look outside the time frame box too.   I can't wait around for August expecting that to be the month that seals everything back up and makes life perfect again!  Honestly life wasn't perfect last June at this time.  I still had problems.  I still had worries.   Though my mind has changed.  The focus has changed.   The problems have changed and my heart has changed.

The past week has taught me to stop looking at the time frame.   August will come and go and things will still continue to change.    It's not a fix all.  So I am taking my eyes off of August.   Though I am looking forward to my Zip line adventure in August.... That's a story for another day. :)

The world around us is constantly changing and that's never going to stop. Me being a person who hates change is still learning to deal with that.   Jobs and social groups are forever changing.   That's life.   Most of you already know this.  Even I know this.  It's just understanding it.

If my life stayed exactly the same as it had been, I would be dull.. I would be boring and I wouldn't be growing.  I need to keep growing.  In order for me to do what God has planed for me.  I have to change.   I have to learn.   I have to have Faith and focus on GOD not on a date.   A year is a good way to measure growth.  We all do it.  Birthday's News years.  Those are fun ways to look at it.   It just can't be the focal point.   I however will no longer be thinking in my head.   I can't wait to see where my life is in August.   That's just plain silly.  I need to view each day like that.  I can't wait to see where my life is today!   I can't wait to see how God uses me today!   I can't wait to grow and learn today!

It's interesting to see how much growth can happen in a year.  I will still do that.  I mean look at where I am now wow... So much growth.  I had a great job, I now have another great job.  I had great friends.. I have more great friends.  I had Faith.  My Faith has GROWN....  I worked with some great co workers.. I am working with new and wonderful coworkers.. I learned from the old co workers lots of life lessons..  Ones that prepared me to be where I am at right now.  To maybe be a model to those around me.  Now I get to learn from more great people.  Seeing that in a year's time is fun!  So I am not saying I won't look for that.

I am just going to focus on the today!!!

Today, I was thankful for sunshine... I was thankful for coworkers who knew how to encourage me.  Who knew what to say.   Who just shared a simple hello at the right time.  I am thankful for silly games with friends and family.  I am thankful for a job... I am thankful that I knew all day that God was taking care of me and everyone around me.  I was thankful to be able to laugh instead of cry. I am thankful to be able to have a text conversation with a friend.  If I were focusing  on August being the bandage that I need and others around me need.. I probably would have missed the point of today.  I would have missed the joy that God planted just for me.

I am not always the best at writing in my joy journal, but I have learned to spot the joy and focus on that... Not the BIG box... It's the tiny little boxes through out the day that actually bring me the most joy and strengthen me and my faith.

So focusing on the day... Is my new goal :)  Though like I said I am still looking forward to parts of August :)  I am just not looking at it as my bandage or the finish line anymore.   

Learning and Growing daily...

Melt down...

This week I had a melt down.  Threw a tantrum like a child... Listened to that little voice inside of my head that told me I was not good enough.  In fact I herd "You're ugly! You are too fat!  You are too perky!  You try to hard!  No one really wants to be friends with you.  You are too emotional... To damaged.. Beyond repair."  Those were some pretty intense voices.   They got me.. Oh how they got me...  It was a full inward battle... Lots of anger and emotions.   Things I haven't addressed.  I push away.  That's just me.

God gave me a gift.... He gave me a gift of a friend that no matter how much I try to shut out the world, she won't let me shut her out.  She'll do anything to make me smile.  She'll push me harder then anyone has ever pushed... This week she first assured me she loved me.  Said some truths.. Hard things to hear... Things I needed to hear..  She hugged me and allowed me to share my feelings.   She also challenged me.  Challenged me to look at things a little different.  Challenged me to not rob the joy out of my own life.

She challenged me to read a Psalm and a Proverb every day... Find truths in them.  Realize my importance to God.

Replaying that conversation in my head... God gave me the best of friend... I see him through her daily... I am so very blessed.... THAT day... is going down in my joy journal.   I am not okay with my behavior of that day.  Things I need to work on.. However, I am thankful to see the growth in my life.  To see just how much God loves me.  To see his love in a bond between a friend that's is not describable... 

I am so blessed....

Thank you God..... 

Compassion

"You're too sensitive!  You are such a people pleaser!!  Don't take everything so personally!  Who cares what they think of you?  Why are you giving that person your time?  They've never been nice to you!  You are too trusting!  You are naive!"  I have herd those comments many times in my life.  Numerous times in my life.  By many...  At one point I became ashamed of myself.  I felt embarrassed!  I didn't understand me...  I got the "You get hurt, because you give too much!  Don't you ever do anything just for you?   You are too trusting!   Why do you have the desire to please people?"   Again the more I herd those things the more I doubted myself.   Maybe I am too emotional, maybe I am too trusting...

What I have really learned over this past year as I have gone through many huge life challenges and changes.  If you look at those things a negatives then yes they are going to be negative and yes they are going to tear you down.

However if you look at those in a different light everything changes.  Those who know me well know I try to tend to always look at the more positive side of life.  I want to be happy, I want to be fulfilled and I want those around me to have the best of me I can offer.

I was made to be sensitive, I was made to cry easy, to laugh often and to love with my full heart.   It's actually the best gift I have ever been given!  I of course am just learning this, I used to see this as a flaw... However my emotions connect me to people.  They allow me to love and they allow me to forgive...

I am that person that loves everyone with everything I have, but have a wall up around me and have a hard time letting others love me... That's not healthy and that's what I am working on right now..  Allowing others to love me..

This week I have had a few people just laid on my heart, so much love and compassion towards them.  Some I know very well... Some I am just meeting...  

This past year has really changed me... It's made my Faith grow.. It's made me grow in ways I can't explain   So this past week as I am thinking about others... Praying for them..  Allowing my emotions to guide me... I am seeing it as a gift... Not a curse...  I am seeing just how much God has given me.  How much God is doing in this world.

How thankful I am to witness it in my own life and the lives of others around me.

I am not ashamed of being emotional, I am not ashamed of asking for help when I need it.  I am not ashamed of wanting to cry for no reason.  I am not ashamed of investing in others...   I am just learning that I can be me and it doesn't matter how the world views me.  It only matters how God views me.  He made me this way and I am thankful for that.  I am thankful to be me!