Joy in others!

I just feel it on my heart to write this blog so I am going to go with it. You have to open your heart and loves others and animals. It brings more Joy to the soul then one could imagine. However you have to be aware that opening your heart to others is a risky business people aren't perfect. They are going to let you down. They are going to hurt you from time to time. However you must not shut down and lock your heart away from them. You rise up and you forgive and love the person. They won't always hurt you and they won't always fail you. In fact they'll build you up and love you and shape you into a better person. You have to remember that you're going to hurt them some day. You're going to fail them too and you need them to forgive you as you would do to them. Now I am not saying you keep forgiving an abusive person over and over again those are people that you need to block out. However not everyone is out to get you and not everyone is going to hurt you. Make wise choices on who you let in but once you let them in LOVE them with everything you have. I've herd some very sad stories the last few days of friendships ending and people passing away alone. Those stories break my heart.
Some people are born into wonderful families who love them and help them grow and stay with them for life. Those people are very blessed and I hope they don't take that for granted. Some people are not born into families like that for those people it's very important for them to go out into and find those people that are made into family. Friends are the family we pick for ourselves.

I am sometimes known as the naive one. The sensitive one. The overly perky in the early morning one. I had someone ask me one day how I did it. Here's what I told them. I find the best in every single person. I believe there is good in everyone. I practice what I believe I forgive and I try not to dwell on the pain. Being sad is easy to do trust me I am emotional I cry easily and my feelings can get hurt quickly but I've learned I have become so much happier by forgiving and loving the person. I am not saying I don't cry when I am hurt sometimes that's what I need to do to feel justified but then I move on but keeping my heart open to the person. I can not tell you how much love and joy is in my life and that makes the painful moments not so painful

As I said this was just on my mind tonight and I beg you all to reach out to your loved ones and let them know you love them. Or give your animals a hug and most importantly if you are in a feud own up to your part, learn from the hurt and forgive. Don't let it destroy a relationship.

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How did it become June already? I can't believe it's taken me so long to update my blog. I am sorry!

Soo here's what is going on in my world. My parents relationship came to an end I never thought I would see that happen. However things happen in life that you just can't control and this is one of them. You just love the people. After all they are my parents. My mom has moved in with me and Its been going great! I love having my mom here!

I-pop update I wasn't able to come up with all the money I need so I won't be going this July however they hold onto what I have saved and it goes towards the next one. So I am going to go in January at first I was a little sad however it's all working out for the best. This year my sister has booked a flight to Nevada to spend with our grandparents and now I get to join her. My sister and I make it a goal to see each other at least once a year and we missed seeing each other last year so this is all working out.. As for i-pop for the next six months I am going to continue to fundraise and save money. It'll be fun when I get there!

There are so many great things happening this June I can't wait to see what comes from them..


Loving my life!

Loving my family!

Loving my FRIENDS!!!

Loving my job!

I am blessed!